I was preparing to write a post on a complete other subject, but something poped-up in my head to write this one first 
Today, I read a pretty interesting post at honda’s blog, called “يخربيت النكد”
Simply, her fiancé was travelling abroad and she was with him in the airport saying goodbye and NOT CRYING , while everyone around her was crying for the same situation, and she was wondering why they cry and make a sad goodbye moment..
Any way, the replies i read is the main thing made me write this post, people were agreeing that the Egyptians are “sha3b nekady” because they keep crying in sad and in joy, in other words said to be “sha3b mobala3′ feeh” really couldn’t understand it, I disagreed with these opinions, cause I’ve always believed that if there is only one single thing that can be a privilege for us, is that we are a very caring and emotional people.. not in all circumstances but we are a loving and very caring and sensitive people
When anything happens we compare ourselves with the European and western people, how they are more superior than us, but if you asked anyone what makes us better?…….. It’s our feelings,warm feelings, they are cold people
Regardless the post and the replies, it only made me notice something, that nowadays we REALLY love to criticize ourselves to be bad and everything we do is ta5llof we 3adat habla…ya3ni leh -masalan- mafasarnash el 3eyat fe mawakef mo3ayana eno rafaheya fel e7sas, aw AT LEAST 7orreya sha5seya fel ta3ber 3an el masha3er !! ..elli ye3ayat bera7to welli may3aytsh 5er we baraka…
I can’t deny there’s alot of bad habits in our society but why we keep showing every little thing as an extra disadvantage of us.. mn 2ellet mashakel aw 3oyoob fena masalan..!!
Then, it’s not about crying or whatever, it’s about why we can’t see a very simple thing to be good..
We are not that bad… El donya lessa be 5eerr…
I’m an optimistic person, I love that we are this emotional people, I love that I can walk in the street smiling, and i’ll see many smiling back to me, I love the funny soul, many many things….while many others i don’t.
Two days ago, I was going from el mahallah to Cairo, on the road, cars were slowing down, looked like an accident and it was a motorcycle , a woman felled down from it, and in a moment, 3 men were around helping and covering her. Looks like a very natural and innocent accident but it made me realize “El donya lessa be 5eer” my sister laughed when I said so, because “ana motaf2la awyy 3shan regala sa3do wa7da wa23a”, and I’m
I hate the amount of depression we are living now, I know that for every good point I mentioned there are 100 bad ones, and i face it every single day, but the good still there, may be a little bit rare, yet, still there 
I really wish we can look to the bright side, we stop saying and analyzing everything to be bad habbit or failure, If we just believe that deep inside there’s goodness, we’ll feel so much reliefed.
“The darkest time in the night is just before the dawn”, that’s what i like to believe
هوندا Said:
November 26th, 2008 at 8:48 am
ياسينسيتف انتى انا كنت حاسة انك هتكتبى بوست مش عارفه ليه عن الموضوع هههههههههههه
بصى ياسينو انا متعجبتش هما ليه بيعيطو انا تعجبت هما ليه شايفين ان المفروض اعيط يعنى لو مكنش حد قالى حاجة مكنش الموضوع هييجى فى ذهنى
انا لما حللت الموضوع شوية كان ليا وجهة نظر قلت جزء منها الجزء التانى انك لما تقولى اننا ناس حساسه مش باردين
نتيجة الموضوع ده شوفى المصريين عاملين ازاى بره فى جو الغربة بيعملو الغربه دى مآسى انا طبعا عارفه ان الشخص بيخسر حاجات كتير فى بلده بس شايفه ان دورى مثلا انى اكون مساندة لزوجى أكتر واشجعه واحسسسه ان السفر ده حاجة عادية جدا ليها تغيير فى مستقبله ومستقبلنا وخبرة ورساله ووووووو لما سكون هناك يحس ان الى فيه ده حاجة عادية مش طول الوقت يحس انه متغرب …. زمان كان طلب العلم ليه وزنه كان الناس بتسافر ملايين الكيلومترات عشان تتعلم كان عبادة بالنسبة لهم لان المجتمع بقا ليه نظرة معينه فى قيمة الموضوع ده نفسى بقا نوصل للثقافه دى عشان الشخص يتحفز اكتر
Sinar Shebl Said:
November 26th, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I agree with u honda, but this is not what i’m talking about…
that’s all…
it’s why we covert every single act we do 2 be a bad thing… we7na sha3ba nekady, mota5allef, msh bne3mel, msh bensawyyy…
leeeh???
ana 5adt ur post as an example msh akter…
el nas betsafer we btet3′arab 3shan tet3alem aw 3shan tegeeb floos aw wtever, ana mn 7a22y az3al en gozy mesafer we sayebni, msh ma3na keda eny ba2olo matsafersh we seeb mosta2balak we 2o3od ganby !!!!!
elli medaye2ni en el mawdoo3 ba2a judgement 3ala el nas 3shan za3laneen enhom yefar2o weladhom aw 7abyebhom.. !!!
we 3ala fekra, elli sa2aloki msh bei2ololek enk ma3andekesh dam, bas de common nature we bte7sal almost ma3 95% mn el nas
fa ma5alesh eslob ta3bery 3an masha3rey yet7awel le 2eny msh supporting lelli byet3′arabo aw keda…
wel 3′orba 3ala fekra, mn aswa2 we as3ab el mashakel for a family 2 face ,,,,
ayman Said:
December 1st, 2008 at 4:51 pm
oh really , soo nice topic ya sinar , el topic momtaz gedan we byklem fe point mohemah gedan ma 7deash byntbeh leha ktear , ana 3an nafse 2stfadt menha , we m3ak 2n 27na mesh el mafrod ntla3 kl 7agah fena 3la 2nha 3yob b e el zat el mwdo3 bta3 el 3yat dah , da be el 3aks da howa dah men el 7agat 2le mmyzana 3an b2eat el sh3ob , 2n 27na 3ndena 3atefah we n7es , da homa nfshom yekon 3ndhom nafs el def2 2le 3ndena
yes 27na 3ndena problems ktear , bas 3ndena 7agat 27la bardoh ktear
slam
Sinar Shebl Said:
December 3rd, 2008 at 1:54 pm
I totally agree ayman,
I wish we can look at our life in a more bright way…
iman Said:
December 5th, 2008 at 12:00 am
I think being emotional is one of our merits.. no matter how hard we try not to be.. believe me we can’t.. it’s just us..and actually i find nothing wrong about it..
however, we should consider how this affects our behavior.. cuz i admit it sometimes it does really bad…
we eldonya lessa b7′eir fe3lan ya sinar.. alhamdulilah.. a7yanan beyb2a fee e7bat.. bas feeh nas feeha 7′eir.. beysa3dooky
I hope u would always have this positive attitude.. w mabroooook 3ala ur nice beautiful spot (blog).. keep up the good work ! : )